Accepting help is not easy for a lot of different people, including possibly your senior family member. If that’s the case, you might want to try some of these ideas to help her to adjust to you hiring senior care providers. Not all of these might work right away, so there could be some trial and error involved.

Talk to Your Senior about the Real Issues

Senior Care West Sacramento, CA: Accepting Help

There are real reasons you feel your senior needs some more help, right? So, it might be a good idea to get to those sooner rather than later. Share with your elderly family member what your concerns are and how having some more help can relieve some of the issues that your senior might be experiencing. Getting to the meat of the issue can help quite a bit.

Make Sure She’s Not Losing Anything

Lots of times aging family members resist help from others because they are deep down concerned about what they’ll lose in accepting that help. You know that she’s not going to lose anything but knowing that doesn’t make her realize that. It’s much better to show her through your own actions that she’s still going to have privacy, she’s still going to have independence, and she’s still going to have a say in her own life.

Keep Changes Slow and Give Her Veto Power

Along those lines, you’re going to want to make the changes your senior is experiencing small ones that happen slowly over time. And make sure that she knows that she has veto power over some of these choices. There might be some that are non-negotiable, especially if they involve safety, so be clear with her about those.

You May Have to Let Her Come to Conclusions on Her Own

Ultimately, though, you may have to allow your senior to get to some of these answers on her own. Even if you are trying diligently to make sure that she has the help that she needs, none of that is a guarantee that she’ll see it that way until it finally clicks for her. That means you’ll have to be patient as she comes around.

Bringing in senior care providers can absolutely be the best thing for your senior, but it can still take time for her to see it as the best solution for her. Talk to her about what else you can do that might help.

If you or an aging loved-one is considering Senior Care in West Sacramento, CA please contact the caring staff at Aging Assistant today. (916) 897-4752

James Ozsvath

Aging Assistant is a locally owned and operated in-home senior care provider, we are dedicated to helping our clients to remain in the home they love for as long as they can. Our caregiving staff are all warm and compassionate professionals, experienced in taking care of seniors in various stages of health. We handle a wide range of services, such as help with shopping, housekeeping, attending doctor’s appointments, and preparing meals. We also provide our clients with limited mobility or more intensive conditions such as Alzheimer’s disease or Dementia with the higher level of personal care that they require. Call our team now if you need help with a loved one's care.

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